Happy Birthday, Miles!!

Happy Birthday Miles!!! Miles turns 3 tomorrow (November 2)! I can't believe it has been three years already. He is excited about his birthday even though I am not sure what we are going to do.





There are a lot of cool indoor playgrounds here so I think we will go to one of those. There is even a Build A Bear workshop at the train station. Don't know what we'll do. But I am sure it will be fun.

Everything here is going good. Brian made it back safely from Germany and the kids and I survived. We had some good adventures learning about how parking garages and elevators work here, so we are ready to conquer the world! Brian has it so easy (well, despite the working part;O). He gets to let us go out and explore while he sits in his office...so he never has to make a fool out of himself in the learning process. This is probably a good thing since I don't get bothered too much by looking like an idiot going on vendor elevators and holding up lines of traffic in parking garages! Anyway, in our adventures this week we went to AROS the art museum here. We had a good time looking at the different periods of art. This coincided with Owen's Art Show debut in Macon on the 30th at Art on the Avenue on Ingleside. He had 4 pieces on display and we were so proud! Sounds like he had a lot of home support and all went well (I included some pics).




At Aros he and Weston really enjoyed looking at the modern art on display. They even had some Andy Warhol pieces. They also had some pretty freaky stuff that even for an art admirer like myself was just plain weird. But to each his own!

Next week we plan to go to the Museum of Natural History and or a glass blowing museum a ways from here. This experience has really made me stop and think how many cool things there are in Georgia that I don't take advantage of because I live there. Brian is going home the 12th-15th of November for a meeting. Now that will be weird! But I have a bunch of stuff I want him to take home and swap for other stuff, so it will work out well.

I was planning to write about storytelling...so here goes. Brian and I were discussing the lack of practicing Christians in Denmark and were, for hypothetical sake, imagining we were missionaries here. How would we reach the people? This got us talking about the strong legacy of stories knitting people together through history. Those stories have been lost here somehow. He was saying that it was the stories of the Bible that kept him coming back during times when he would stray. He can remember the look, feel, smell of the book his Dad used to read the bible stories out of and how that storytelling knitted those people and that history into his being, like they became a part of his own past. I can remember my Mom telling us stories about her childhood, our births, our childhood and those stories made us so close to each other and even to ourselves. We spent time talking to each other about beliefs and histories. Today our stories revolve primarily around TV and movies. We are hearing stories from people we don't know at all and are letting those stories influence our kids and ourselves with more impact than the stories of the bible, our own histories and the history of our families. I am the most guilty of all. Not that it's all bad, but it is something I have been thinking about. Miles reminds me because with his birthday coming, I have been telling him about what it was like when we were waiting for him to be born, and how he came and what he looked like when he was a baby and he EATS it up. He could listen to those stories over and over again. This doesn't get us any closer to answering our questions about how one would turn things around for a lot of people in Denmark, but it did shed some light on keeping the stories from our past alive.

On another note, my Mom sent me an article on the Muslim immigration issue in Denmark. The only place I have been told NOT to go alone is the Muslim district of Aarhus. I can see why and I think this article provides something for Americans to consider regarding our own immigration controversies.

In Denmark, once-liberal immigration policies have forced huge governmental change and zero tolerance for Muslim immigrants intent on turning Denmark into an Islamic welfare haven. FSM Contributing Editor Susan MacAllen reveals a shocking reaction there and lessons America must learn.

Salute the Danish Flag! - It’s a Symbol of Western Freedom By Susan MacAllen

In 1978-9 I was living and studying in Denmark. An elderly woman to whom I was close said something to me one day that puzzled me for many years after. I forget what the context of our conversation was, but she commented that I - as a young American in Denmark - should not let any Dane scold me about the way America had treated its black population, because the Danes in her view treated their immigrants at least as badly. I wasn’t sure which immigrants she meant, so I asked her. She answered that she meant those from the Middle East.

But in 1978 - even in Copenhagen, one didn’t see these Muslim immigrants. The Danish population embraced visitors, celebrated the exotic, went out of its way to protect each of its citizens. It was proud of its new brand of socialist liberalism - one in development since the conservatives had lost power in 1929 - a system where no worker had to struggle to survive, where one ultimately could count upon the state as in, perhaps, no other western nation at the time. The rest of Europe saw the Scandinavians as free-thinking, progressive and infinitely generous in their welfare policies. Denmark boasted low crime rates, devotion to the environment, a superior educational system and a history of humanitarianism.

Denmark was also most generous in its immigration policies - it offered the best welcome in Europe to the new immigrant: generous welfare payments from first arrival plus additional perks in transportation, housing and education. It was determined to set a world example for inclusiveness and multiculturalism. How could it have predicted that one day in 2005 a series of political cartoons in a newspaper would spark violence that would leave dozens dead in the streets - all because its commitment to multiculturalism would come back to bite?

By the 1990's the growing urban Muslim population was obvious - and its unwillingness to integrate into Danish society was obvious. Years of immigrants had settled into Muslim-exclusive enclaves. As the Muslim leadership became more vocal about what they considered the decadence of Denmark’s liberal way of life, the Danes - once so welcoming - began to feel slighted. Many Danes had begun to see Islam as incompatible with their long-standing values: belief in personal liberty and free speech, in equality for women, in tolerance for other ethnic groups, and a deep pride in Danish heritage and history.

The New York Post in 2002 ran an article by Daniel Pipes and Lars Hedegaard, in which they forecasted accurately that the growing immigrant problem in Denmark would explode. In the article they reported:

· "Muslim immigrants…constitute 5 percent of the population but consume upwards of 40 percent of the welfare spending."

· "Muslims are only 4 percent of Denmark's 5.4 million people but make up a majority of the country's convicted rapists, an especially combustible issue given that practically all the female victims are non-Muslim. Similar, if lesser, disproportions are found in other crimes."

· "Over time, as Muslim immigrants increase in numbers, they wish less to mix with the indigenous population. A recent survey finds that only 5 percent of young Muslim immigrants would readily marry a Dane."

· "Forced marriages - promising a newborn daughter in Denmark to a male cousin in the home country, then compelling her to marry him, sometimes on pain of death - are one problem..."

· "Muslim leaders openly declare their goal of introducing Islamic law once Denmark's Muslim population grows large enough - a not-that-remote prospect. If present trends persist, one sociologist estimates, every third inhabitant of Denmark in 40 years will be Muslim."

It is easy to understand why a growing number of Danes would feel that Muslim immigrants show little respect for Danish values and laws. An example is the phenomenon common to other European countries and the U.S.: some Muslims in Denmark who opted to leave the Muslim faith have been murdered in the name of Islam, while others hide in fear for their lives. Jews are also threatened and harassed openly by Muslim leaders in Denmark, a country where once Christian citizens worked to smuggle out nearly all of their 7,000 Jews by night to Sweden - before the Nazis could invade. I think of my Danish friend Elsa - who as a teenager had dreaded crossing the street to the bakery every morning under the eyes of occupying Nazi soldiers - and I wonder what she would say today.

In 2001, Denmark elected the most conservative government in some 70 years - one that had some decidedly non-generous ideas about liberal unfettered immigration. Today Denmark has the strictest immigration policies in Europe. ( Its effort to protect itself has been met with accusations of "racism" by liberal media across Europe - even as other governments struggle to right the social problems wrought by years of too-lax immigration.) If you wish to become Danish, you must attend three years of language classes. You must pass a test on Denmark’s history, culture, and a Danish language test. You must live in Denmark for 7 years before applying for citizenship. You must demonstrate an intent to work, and have a job waiting. If you wish to bring a spouse into Denmark, you must both be over 24 years of age, and you won’t find it so easy anymore to move your friends and family to Denmark with you. You will not be allowed to build a mosque in Copenhagen. Although your children have a choice of some 30 Arabic culture and language schools in Denmark, they will be strongly encouraged to assimilate to Danish society in ways that past immigrants weren’t.

In 2006, the Danish minister for employment, Claus Hjort Frederiksen, spoke publicly of the burden of Muslim immigrants on the Danish welfare system, and it was horrifying: the government’s welfare committee had calculated that if immigration from Third World countries were blocked, 75 percent of the cuts needed to sustain the huge welfare system in coming decades would be unnecessary. In other words, the welfare system as it existed was being exploited by immigrants to the point of eventually bankrupting the government. "We are simply forced to adopt a new policy on immigration. The calculations of the welfare committee are terrifying and show how unsuccessful the integration of immigrants has been up to now," he said.

A large thorn in the side of Denmark’s imams is the Minister of Immigration and Integration, Rikke Hvilshoj. She makes no bones about the new policy toward immigration, "The number of foreigners coming to the country makes a difference," Hvilshøj says, "There is an inverse correlation between how many come here and how well we can receive the foreigners that come." And on Muslim immigrants needing to demonstrate a willingness to blend in, "In my view, Denmark should be a country with room for different cultures and religions. Some values, however, are more important than others. We refuse to question democracy, equal rights, and freedom of speech."

Hvilshoj has paid a price for her show of backbone. Perhaps to test her resolve, the leading radical imam in Denmark, Ahmed Abdel Rahman Abu Laban, demanded that the government pay blood money to the family of a Muslim who was murdered in a suburb of Copenhagen, stating that the family’s thirst for revenge could be thwarted for money. When Hvilshoj dismissed his demand, he argued that in Muslim culture the payment of retribution money was common, to which Hvilshoj replied that what is done in a Muslim country is not necessarily what is done in Denmark. The Muslim reply came soon after: her house was torched while she, her husband and children slept. All managed to escape unharmed, but she and her family were moved to a secret location and she and other ministers were assigned bodyguards for the first time - in a country where such murderous violence was once so scarce.

Her government has slid to the right, and her borders have tightened. Many believe that what happens in the next decade will determine whether Denmark survives as a bastion of good living, humane thinking and social responsibility, or whether it becomes a nation at civil war with supporters of Sharia law. And meanwhile, Americans clamor for stricter immigration policies, and demand an end to state welfare programs that allow many immigrants to live on the public dole. As we in America look at the enclaves of Muslims amongst us, and see those who enter our shores too easily, dare live on our taxes, yet refuse to embrace our culture, respect our traditions, participate in our legal system, obey our laws, speak our language, appreciate our history . . . we would do well to look to Denmark, and say a prayer for her future and for our own.

FamilySecurityMatters.org contributing editor Susan MacAllen writes a political blog, askew.blogharbor.com, and has written on an extensive array of subjects for over 20 years. She has lived overseas and been intimately involved in the French culture since the Muslim immigrant population emerged in the south of France.

We love and miss everyone! Love hearing from you! Amanda and fam!

PS Happy belated Halloween! The kids here don't Trick or Treat, so our kids came to our own house!


Also, one last thing...sorry..this one is a long entry! My sister showed me this a while ago and it provides some humor on this whole immigration issue! Thought you might enjoy a good laugh with Byron! Enjoy!